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Stop Neglecting Families

An Opinion by Michael B. Friedman, CSW
First Published in Mental Health News, Winter 2002

Tribute to the People Who Provide Support for the Mentally Ill

This issue of Mental Health News pays tribute to the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI) and thus to the people who provide care and support to family members with psychiatric disabilities. It is a well-deserved tribute, a statement of recognition and gratitude that, unfortunately, is not paralleled in public mental health policy. In this society we take the care that families provide for granted, and neither New York State nor the federal government does much to help families to manage the burden they voluntarily took on when institution-based mental health policy was replaced with community mental health policy.

It is commonplace that in the early phases of deinstitutionalization many people with serious mental illness were abandoned in the community with inadequate housing, treatment and supports. But it is rarely acknowledged that deinstitutionalization also resulted in a great shift from institutional care to family care. As many as 2/3 of the people who left State hospitals returned to live with their families, who simply would not allow them to live in the squalid and dangerous housing that was available for people on public assistance.

It was a major de facto change in social policy, from governmental responsibility for people with serious and long-term mental illnesses to family responsibility. It was a shift in social policy that, because it was not acknowledged, abandoned families, as well as their family members with mental illnesses, without the support, or even the gratitude, that they deserve for the care that they provide.

Families Provide Services That Should Come From a Comprehensive Mental Health System

It is important to recognize that many families provide the full range of community supports that should be provided by a comprehensive mental health system.

For example, a great many families provide:

  • Housing for family members with mental illnesses. According to the best estimates available, a third or more of people with serious, long-term mental illnesses live with their parents. That means that more people with mental illnesses live with their families than in housing certified or funded by OMH or in State hospitals or in nursing homes or in adult homes. Apparently families are the largest housing provider for people with mental illnesses.
  • Intensive case management. Not only do they serve as the link among multiple and changing service providers, not only do they negotiate systems that frequently don't work smoothly; they are also on call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Often they are the mobile crisis team by default for their family member.
  • Financial assistance, paying for sundry pleasures that no one living on income maintenance can afford. And families even pay for treatment and case management services when the public services are not available or good enough.
  • Serve as great mental health advocates - as NAMI illustrates. In its early days, NAMI and the family members it represented focused heavily on protecting the institutional services on which our society had depended for more than a century. But increasingly families have realized that recovery is a real possibility and that their family members can live in the community independently or with greater reliance on peers than on families. Families, therefore, have become great advocates for a mental health system built on expectations of recovery. They are also vocal spokespeople for overcoming stigma and discrimination and for recognition of the basic human rights of people with mental illnesses-rights to housing, to work, to mental health insurance, to access to the mainstream and to be treated with dignity.

Given all that families do, it is appalling that they are so neglected by the mental health system, which has not responded meaningfully to the needs of families or provided them with the support they deserve as major providers of care.

What Should Government Do To Help?

Over the past fifteen years, I have spent a good deal of time in discussion with family members and perhaps as importantly have learned a great deal from having myself been responsible for a family member with a disabling mental illness. Several themes have emerged:

  • The mental health system is not helpful enough when there is a crisis that requires an immediate response. Too often it is only the police or an ambulance that can arrive quickly enough, setting in motion a process that frequently is emotionally painful and sometimes destructive. Alternative crisis intervention services are essential.
  • Professionals are still too often disdainful of families and primary consumers and do not treat them as partners in care. Training using a mix of families, consumers and professionals as trainers could be helpful.
  • There are not enough psycho educational opportunities for families, especially for families experiencing mental illness for the first time. This is particularly discouraging because psycho education is one of the few interventions other than medication for which there is research evidence of effectiveness.
  • Mutual support is highly valued by families. Government support for the development of family resource centers would be invaluable, particularly for centers which would emphasize outreach to families who are not now members of NAMI, including cultural minorities and "first break" families.
  • Parents worry about what will happen to their family members with mental illnesses after the parents die or become disabled. More support for future care planning to help families and consumers to prepare for the inevitable would be very useful.
  • Finally, providing support to family members with disabilities is expensive. One study estimated that family members provide more than $200 billion a year worth of home care to family members with disabilities (physical as well as mental). Modifications of tax and income maintenance policy, to provide tax credits for families and to provide for full SSI benefits for people with psychiatric disabilities who live with their families could ease the financial burden. And it would show the gratitude of a society for the burden families have taken on since the massive shift of mental health policy took place in the middle of the 20th century.

(Michael B. Friedman is the Public Policy Consultant for the Mental Health Associations of New York City and Westchester County. The opinions expressed in this column are his own and not necessarily the positions of the Mental Health Associations.)

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