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The Child Molesters: Clinical Observations - Part I
By A. Nicholas Groth, PhD, William F. Hobson, MS, Thomas S. Gary, MEd.

This monograph was developed after a l985 training institute, "The Incest Offender, The Victim, The Family: New Treatment Approaches" sponsored by MHA. As noted in the introduction to the monograph, the articles by Dr. Abel and Dr. Groth "provide the reader with syntheses of two different perspectives about the nature of the disorder and suggest solutions for treating the offender." These articles present their thinking and practice as of l985. Times and practice change and these articles do not necessarily reflect best practice in 2002. We will post a discussion of these articles written from the perspective of current practice. This monograph is presented now for its historical value, to raise awareness of these important issues and hopefully to stimulate discussion among interested individuals.

This is the second of two articles in the monograph, The Incest Offender, the Victim, the Family - New Treatment Approaches.

Introduction

An increasing amount of attention is being focused on the sexual victimization of children; yet no exact statistics exist in regard to this problem for a number of reasons: Many such victimizations may go unreported or undetected, or the suspect may not be apprehended; or there may be insufficient evidence to go to court; or the offender is not convicted; or even if he is convicted his offense may fall under a number of different statutes which are not age-specific-in Massachusetts, for example, the sexual victimization of a child can be encompassed under 25 different statutes-and therefore it is impossible to retrieve the number of identified sexual offenses committed specifically against children. Nevertheless human service and criminal justice professionals are encountering more and more reported incidents of inter-generation sexual activity. The authors of this chapter are clinicians who have worked with identified sexual offenders against children in a variety of institutional and community-based settings. Our professional experience to date has spanned 16 years and encompassed over 500 such offenders, and our aim in this chapter is to share our clinical observations, ideas, and impressions derived from our work in the hope that this will offer others a useful overview and approach to understanding and working with the child molester. Our sample of identified offenders may be biased-there may be better-integrated individuals who commit similar offenses with more discretion and circumspection and thus remain undetected-but our offenders have in fact encompassed a sufficiently broad spectrum in regard to age, education. and occupation to persuade us that the fact of identification and conviction is not a distorting variable with regard to the psychology of the child offender. With increasing opportunity to work with and study such offenders our knowledge of the offender, his offense, and his victim continues to develop, and we find that many of the commonly held assumptions in regard to the child molester (pedophile) are not being substantiated.

Myths About Child Molestation

Generally in order to safeguard children against sexual victimization, they are admonished to watch out for advances from strangers. For the most part, however, the child molester is not a stranger, the large majority being in fact known and often related to their victims. The child molester is commonly stereotyped as a "dirty old man" or a "monster". The fact is that in more than half the cases we have worked with we found that the offender had attempted or committed his first sexual assault by the age of 16. Although most identified offenders are adults this only reflects the point at which their behavior is recognized as an offense, not the onset of their sexual pathology. Because the sexual victimization of children is so reprehensible, the offender is perceived to be some sort of depraved monster. Again in our experience we have by and large not found this to be the case. His offense has been more the product of immaturity than malicious intent, and in many respects the offender may otherwise be living a competent, law-abiding, and productive life. Unfortunately, when people expect the offender to be a monster and the accused is a respectable person, then doubt is shed on the veracity of the victim's allegations-the child is thought to be mistaken or even lying. Generally speaking we have not found any social or demographic characteristics that differentiate the child molester from the general population, not his race, religion, intelligence, education, vocation, socioeconomic class, or the like.

Used with permission of the Haworth Press, Inc. from the Journal of Social Work and Human Sexuality, Vol. 1, Nos. 1/2, Fall/Winter 1982, Copyright (c) all rights reserved.

What we have found is that pedophilia cuts across the whole spectrum of diagnostic categories, but for the most part we are not dealing with persons who are mentally ill but who are emotionally troubled. The defects in their functioning are not cognitive, or perceptual, or emotional, but interpersonal. What we are dealing with, in most cases, is the aftermath of physical and/or psychological abuse, neglect exploitation, and/or abandonment during the offender's formative years, which has precluded the development of a sense of relatedness to others.

We have also observed that alcohol and drug abuse play a relatively minor role in the commission of such offenses, that females as well as males sexually molest children although such offenses are less socially visible and under-reported, that preadolescent boys and girls are at equal risk of being, sexually victimized, any that men who sexually molest boys are misidentified as homosexuals when they are in fact pedophiles. Finally the child molester is the recipient of the strongest societal anger and disapproval, which ironically only confirms his perception of adults as hostile and punitive and reinforces his attraction to children. If we are genuinely concerned about combating the sexual victimization of children we must be humanistic in our attitudes towards the offender so that we don't inadvertently perpetuate the problem. If part of the reason the offender turns to children is because he is intimidated by adults and he is then placed in a prison setting which exposes him to threats of harm, humiliation, exploitation, and physical abuse at the hands of other inmates, this may serve only to reinforce his fear, distrust, and avoidance of adults and to encourage his seeking out children whom he perceives will not hate or hurt him. Where incarceration is required, then, a security treatment center specifically for sex offenders is preferable to a conventional correctional institution or prison.

The Offense

What is a child sexual victimization? It is any behavior on the part of an individual that exposes a child to the risk of psychological interference in his or her sexual development. The spectrum of such victimization may range from situations at one extreme in which there is no direct physical contact with the victim (for example, the offender may expose himself or he may encourage children to permit him to photograph them in the nude) to those at the other extreme in which the child may be physically attacked and injured or even killed. Sexual offenses against children can be classified into two basic categories in regard to the mode of aggression exhibited in the offense: child molesters and child rapists. Some offend- ers pin sexual access to the child through a combination of enticement and deception. They lure or trick the child into the sexual activity: reward the child for his or her participation: and caution the child against disclosure. These non-violent offenders, whom we refer to as child molesters, essentially coax or pressure the child into the sexual activity. Their offenses constitute sexual extortion in which the child is taught to provide sex in exchange for attention, acceptance, Recognition, and material gain. Other offenders resort to threat, intimidation, and physical force to achieve submission on the part of the victim. They are child rapists who overpower and/ or threaten to harm their victims. Their offenses constitute sexual attacks in which the child victim relinquishes sex in return for survival and release. Obviously the child rapist poses a more serious risk to the physical safety of the victim than does the child molester, but fortunately child rapists constitute a small minority of the sexual offenders against children. For this reason the remainder of this chapter will focus on the major type of perpetrator of sexual offenses against children: the child molester.

Definition

What is a child molester? As it is used in this chapter, the term "child molester" refers to a significantly older person whose conscious sexual interests and overt sexual behaviors are directed either partially or exclusively towards prepubertal children. In contrast to the child rapists for whom sexual aggression is a hostile act, the child-molester exhibits a positive emotional investment in the child whom he eroticizes. He seeks to establish an on-going relationship with the child that includes but extends beyond sexual activity. Having first established a non-sexual relationship and position of familiarity with the child he gradually indoctrinates the child into sexual activities that become more advanced over time. He behaves in counter-aggressive ways, however, and should the child refuse or resist his sexual advances, the child molester may increase his efforts at enticement and manipulation but will not resort to physical force. If the child actively and persistently resists the child molester will ultimately turn to another, more accommodating victim. The risk to the victim of the child- molester, then, is not one of physical injury, but one of psychological harm.

Continuing the Second Article, The Child Molester: Clinical Observations
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